Cyberpunk 2077 Panam Palmer Romance Guide

We'll help you pick the perfect dialogue choices to strengthen your relationship with Panam.

Panam Palmer is an ex-member of the Adecaldos family and one of your main romance partners in Cyberpunk 2077.

She has a charming and witty personality that pairs with her gorgeous looks. It is no surprise that players immediately want to start a relationship with Panam after meeting her for the first time in Night City.

Panam is not just for show in the game. She is an important character who has a major impact on one of the possible endings of Cyberpunk 2077. You will unlock Panam’s ending even if you do not romance her, but doing so will slightly change the ending for the better.

Furthermore, you will be able to take her and the Adecaldos Nomads to Arasaka Tower during the final mission provided that you both are on excellent terms. If you have the Phantom Liberty DLC, you will also get initial information about her whereabouts provided you get The Tower ending.

If you want to get to know Panam better or simply looking to explore all the endings, we have compiled a guide on how you can successfully romance Panam in Cyberpunk 2077.

How to romance Panam Palmer in Cyberpunk 2077

You need to have a male body type and male voice to romance Panam in Cyberpunk 2077. You can only meet these romance requirements at the start of the game when you are customizing your character.

If you are playing as a female V, you will not be able to romance Panam without using a console cheat or a mod, which we will go over later.

You will also need to choose specific dialogue options while completing her storyline. Panam is part of both the main story and side jobs, so you will have plenty of opportunities to woo her.

Below are Panam’s missions and the dialogue choices that you need to pick to romance her in the game.

Ghost Town

Ghost Town is where you meet Panam for the first time.

The start of your romance with Panam in Cyberpunk 2077 begins at your first meeting in Ghost Town mission. You will get it further down into the main storyline since it is the 8th mission in Act 2.

You will meet Rogue at the Afterlife bar in order to get some information on Hellman, she will ask for 15,000 Eurodollars in exchange which will lead to your encounter with Panam.

The amount is pretty hefty and if you don’t have the cash, there is a way to make money fast in Cyberpunk 2077 through a few simple jobs around Night City.

During your encounter with Panam, you will be helping her take care of Nash’s gang but first, you need to help get her car fixed so you can get on the road.

The next dialogue choice comes while staying at the Sunset Motel, you need to ask her if you both could share a room. She will acknowledge that it makes sense given that each room has two twin beds. Tell her that it is not what I had in my mind as your response.

Lightning Breaks

During Lightning Breaks, you and Panam will work together to interrogate Anders Hellman and later get to the bottom of the truth. You can choose to either come clean about Hellman or keep her in the dark, it will not affect your romance with Panam in Cyberpunk 2077.

Once Mitch is secured, you need to get her to help you with Hellman so choose the following dialogue options to succeed.

  • Stay in the car. You’re hurt, won’t be too much help out there anyway.
  • I gotta get Hellman, will you help?
  • I’ll help you settle the score with Kang Tao.

In the end, with Hellman and Saul, you need to defend Panam and she will thank you for standing up for her. Choosing this dialogue option opens the door to your romance with Panam.

  • It wasn’t Panam’s fault.

After Lightning Breaks ends, you’ll have to wait 12 hours in-game for Panam to call you. If she does not, either reload a previous save file or skip time ahead manually.

Riders on the Storm

Riders on the Storm is an important quest if you are looking to romance Panam.

In Riders on the Storm, Panam mentions Saul is kidnapped by rival gangs so she will need your help during the rescue mission. If you say no, your Panam romance quest will fail in Cyberpunk 2077. Hence, make sure that you agree to help her.

Additionally, you will need to meet up with her within 24 hours in-game or your romance will be cut short and you won’t get future quests in her storyline.

While you infiltrate the perpetrators’ camp, Panam will prefer a more stealth-based approach in order to not make any more enemies. But the camp is filled with mobs so even if you are rocking the best stealth build, it will end with you shooting your way through much to Panam’s annoyance.

Note that it is possible to fail the rescue mission, so make sure to create a manual save in order to not lose all your chances with Panam.

After the rescue, you will take cover in a small house where Panam and Saul will engage in a heated conversation. Just keep taking her side as she does make some reasonable points which will end up with you guys taking the couch to relax.

Tell her to put her legs up and then select either to touch Panam’s thigh or “You Choose” dialogue to make your advance. Panam will however reject you which may make you believe it is the end but don’t worry you just need to wait a little more.

With the Help of My Friends

After 12 in-game hours, you will get another call from Panam about still having issues with Saul starting the With the Help of My Friends mission. She will call you over to help her take over the locomotive tower but before you go in, a very important conversation will take place.

Panam will share that she has mutually romantic feelings for you but wants to take things slow so as to not jeopardize the bond you have right now. To progress your romance with Panam in Cyberpunk 2077, you need to agree with her and then choose the dialogue “[Touch Panam’s hand]” to reassure her doubts.

This will be a significant milestone in your relationship with her so you should definitely celebrate your small victory.

After the tower takeover, you need to talk to the nomads around the campfire and Panam will shortly join you there. Among the music and the joyous environment, you need to pick the dialogue choice to “Scooch closer” to her and put a hand around her shoulder to further strengthen your bond.

You will need to tell her that you are going to sleep which will conclude your interaction with Panam.

Queen of the Highway

The last mission in Panam’s romance storyline in Cyberpunk 2077 is Queen Of The Highway. After 24 in-game hours, you will get a call from Panam letting you know that the basilisk you stole during your takeover of the locomotive tower is fixed and ready.

Meet back up with her at the Adecaldos camp and take the Basilisk for a ride which requires you to sync your bodies to function.

It will lead to an intimate moment with Panam, and in order to not miss out on any affectionate scenes choose “Let Panam Touch You”. It will lead to a kiss on the lips and a bit of light-hearted fun.

However, a group of enemies will cut the moment short and you will need to take care of them before you return to the camp with her. While talking about future possibilities with her, your Relic will malfunction causing you to lose consciousness

Panam will be by your side once you wake up, letting you know that she will help you in any way she can if you are willing to take it. Kiss her and give her your thanks and she will tell you that she will keep in touch with you, completing Panam’s Romance questline in Cyberpunk 2077.

There will be a few messages from her now and then, and you can reply to her as you like. After these quests, you’ll ally with Adecaldos as well as earn the Life of the Road trophy.

Can you sleep with Panam again, and NSFW texts

After completing the Panama questline, you can find Panam at The Nomad Camp located outside the Night City proper in Rocky Ridge plains of Badlands.

If you cannot find Panam in the camp, you can teleport to another area, skip time, more than 100 hours in-game, and come back, you will find her there.

Once you meet her, hug her and talk like you usually do. You need to sleep at the Nomad camp to progress the story further.

There is a camp across the trailer where you met Panam, next to the guy at the table, where you will be able to find a bed to get some shut-eye. When you wake up in the morning, you will find Panam sleeping next to you.

Yes, you can sleep with Panam again in Cyberpunk 2077.

After your reunion, you can go about your business, and in about 4 days, you will start getting texts from her. You can skip in-game time as well if you want to speed up the process.

She will start with a simple conversation, asking about Johnny Silverhand and then about Jackie, and eventually sends you a half-naked picture in her shower from where you can progress towards NSFW conversation if you want.

How to get the Panam ending in Cyberpunk 2077

The perfect Panam ending to Cyberpunk 2077.

If you were able to successfully romance Panam in Cyberpunk 2077, you will get a chance to team up with her again on your final mission, Nocturne Op55N1 before entering Embers to chat with Hanako. This will also be your point of no return—something for new players to know.

Once you have infiltrated Mikoshi, you can go full Nomad and become a permanent member of the Adecaldos, living the rest of your life as a Nomad.

During The Phantom Liberty DLC, if you manage to get The Tower ending you will get to know about what happened to Panam during the Things Done Changed quest. After you call her, it will go straight to voicemail and you will find that she left Night City and her number is no longer in service.

How to romance Panam as a female V

Though you can’t engage in a romantic relationship with Panam as female V normally, there is a mod out there to help you with the situation without having to start a new game.

The Panam Romance For Female V Mod allows you, as the name indicates, to have a relationship with Panam as female V.

You will need to have a save file before Ghost Town if you want to experience all the scenes with her but if you don’t have the file, you can still continue from where you are in the story with her right now.

Remember that you will not be able to romance Panam as male V while it is active so turn it off if you are switching between profiles.

If you do not want to install that mod, you can use a console command cheat to romance Panam as a female V.

Install Cyber Engine Tweaks and enter the following in your console: Game.SetDebugFact(“panam_romanceable”,1).

You need to use this cheat before meeting Panam in Riders on the Storm. This will be right after you come out of your house.

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